
21:51
Clifford. Great

22:11
Liz Baker Bertie County Cooperative Extension-Ready

22:27
Hey y’all! Ellen from IEI here! I am multitasking today per usual but today just feels more multi-everything

22:29
Hello everyone, Rosa Bolden Columbus County Partnership for Children

22:37
Leah Wiebe-Smith, North Carolina Conference of the UMC, feeling great!

22:41
Tondrea Leach, PEERS Family Development Center, Onslow County, BusyGirl

23:14
Good morning! Jessica here from Partners in Health and Wholeness/ NC Council of Churches. I am feeling focused

23:46
Hello!

24:01
https://ncsu.zoom.us/meeting/register/tJEtf-6qrzwvGdQDZPIrTrLXPY67nk6MowxY

24:26
Good Morning! Tracey O'Neal from Prevent Child Abuse NC. I am feeling loss for our dog Hope and inspired by our boys who are learning to process and resilience skills so beautifully!

25:04
yay Tracey

25:05
Love that "awkward over zoom"

28:30
church

29:12
My husband and I call toxic relationship - emotional vampires, to be aware of people who drain our energy.

29:17
try not to share emotions with them and recognize expectations.

29:57
^^ Tondrea, stealing that!!

32:31
Ellen has frequently sent me $$ on Venmo to buy a little treat for myself

34:47
Building forts, hiking, dancing! Love it.

37:42
There’s an assisted living home in Durham that is also a daycare! (Not sure what COVID has looked like)

39:38
I know folks who are single mothers who have decided to co-parent their children together. Why not get creative with our family structures?

41:36
Be present

41:45
Be non-judgmental

41:53
be honest

41:56
Be present and really listen

41:59
Learn their love language! Doesn’t even require them to take a test, really just pay attention to what lights them up!

42:56
Great idea, Ellen!

43:11
Don't be distracted

43:32
Total engagement

44:24
I’m trying to think of how to adapt/make fun/special the holidays coming up for kids in my life: halloween / thanksgiving

48:01
Okay if a pastor says FUNERALS don’t come before 5:00, that’s a boundary-setting hero

49:53
Giving roles/responsibilities to participate

51:41
lol Nadia!

52:46
Celebrate birthdays/ half birthdays! Random holidays “doughnut day” etc.

52:59
Maybe I’m projecting (I need a caring adult to bring me doughnuts)

53:21
@kylie lolol

54:05
I love celebrations!!! great idea

54:11
Half birthdays are my favorite especially this year since I could celebrate it since places were open and my birthday was when everything was shut down

54:14
I like the random holidays. Doughnut day is great.

54:15
yes, we are celebrating the children in our family even more than usual, such their half-birthday to help break up the hard

54:51
Texting!

54:54
Facebook, emails, and text

55:06
Love that Kylie! You can be a caring adult and also keep it simple!

55:06
Regular zoom sessions

55:15
Weekly Family Zoom Game Night

55:37
Oh Nelson. That’s such a different thing to be a momma

55:39
We use Zoom to do Bible Study, Leadership Calls and to connect with our children at church. I use Duo to take to my family members

56:10
The older folks in my church LOVE letters

56:18
Just got my grandmama an Alexa with a screen to try and get her to video chat and have “someone” to talk to

56:37
Social distanced outdoor walks

01:00:15
Having congregations posting members of their kids/congregants! People miss seeing each other. Love it

01:01:19
My brother is a pastor in SC and he has been doing a daily devotion every day since COVID began, except Sundays on his church Facebook. They have an ongoing prayer list. I have enjoyed watching daily and if I get behind for any reason, I can go back and watch. He is reaching people all over which is wonderful as he has a small country church.

01:01:57
The youth in the church does small goody baskets randomly dropping off to people in their community.

01:02:07
I’m so so sorry, Grace

01:02:09
WE were doing a Zoom with the children, but it dwindled down.

01:02:31
^ Rosa we’ve heard that over and over. Attendance is very low for many church/community activities

01:03:04
At PEERS we post videos on our Facebook of activities of what parents can do with their children.

01:04:23
At our church, we did baptism on Facebook.

01:07:27
Provide options- it’s easier to pick from what help looks like than think of what that means

01:07:44
“Parents, we have these three ways to help” verses “how can we help you”

01:07:59
say it and model it! When you are okay with being vulnerable and asking for help, it makes it easier for others to as well

01:08:26
I have observed congregations which have created drop-off bags activities for children who then are invited to their own online “class” designed particularly for them to share about their lives and interact with one another and caring adults.

01:10:03
11:00 session, woohoo! https://ncsu.zoom.us/meeting/register/tJEtf-6qrzwvGdQDZPIrTrLXPY67nk6MowxY

01:10:11
Thanks!

01:10:16
Thank you!

01:10:39
That’s really great, Mikael …

01:10:50
Woohoo!! Thank you!